Cat with Breast

Posted on | September 27, 2015 | 16 Comments

Sometimes I don’t have much to say. So here’s a photo of Mama Bear and I relaxing in bed one morning last week.

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Hooray for Spring weather! Sinful Sunday

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Intriguing Reading #96

Posted on | September 25, 2015 | 2 Comments

My irregular roundup of interesting reads, found from all over the place.

Content Notes: consent, genocide, trans negativity, porn negativity

How The Line Between Fantasy and Reality Defines Consent: “The antidote isn’t to police everyone’s thoughts about sexuality even more. It’s to make it okay to fantasize and think about sex and talk about it rather than silencing it. How the hell is anyone supposed to learn that the line exists if no one talks about it? ” (Cecilia Tan)

The Missing History of Ravensbrück, The Nazi Concentration Camp for Women: “The wholesale destruction of evidence at Ravensbrück is another reason the camp’s story has remained obscured. In the final days, every prisoner’s file was burned in the crematorium or on bonfires, along with the bodies. The ashes were thrown in the lake.” (Sarah Helm / Longreads)

3 Different Rope Situations and What to Expect From Them: “All these problems were essentially caused by having either vague expectations or an unrealistic idea of what was supposed to happen, and how things were supposed to go.” (Pete Riggs)

Paul McHugh is wrong: transitioning is effective: “Imagine if a study compared cancer patients receiving a new treatment to healthy controls who did not receive it, and found that the cancer patients were more likely to die than the healthy control group. Would this constitute evidence that the treatment is ineffective?” (Zinnia Jones)

“So What If Your Porn Is Feminist?” So, This: “At this point I would like to point out the irony that occurs when anti-porn campaigners use anti-capitalist arguments. Laura McNally makes a living writing about pornography. In essence, she profits from porn. This doesn’t sit well with the assertion that any commercial involvement undermines one’s ethics.” (Ms. Naughty)

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Udderly Wonderful

Posted on | September 20, 2015 | 19 Comments

Cows are cool. There are a whole lot of different cow breeds that you’ll see in rural New Zealand, but by far the most common is the Friesian with it’s black and white hide (me, I’m really partial to Jersey cows. They’re around too, but you’ve got to look for them).

livestock field
So when Demeter and I were driving home from our long weekend holiday and spotted this field next to our quiet country highway? It was time to make a stop and get some pics for the Scavenger Hunt! ‘Livestock’ is one of the locations, and it’s rather difficult to get when you live in a city (I’d been trying for well over a year, whenever I travelled).

curvaceousdee livestock field
We parked on the side of the road and I tromped back through the mud – Demeter cleverly walked on the tarmac – and said hello to the cows. One was quite interested in what I was doing, which is why she’s so close in the first photo.

curvaceousdee livestock field
I don’t think my udders quite match up to theirs. But I’m still pleased with them! (Friendly cow is very close at this point. Lucky she didn’t knock me over…)


Sometimes the unexpected locations finds can be the most fun! Sinful Sunday

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Elust #74

Posted on | September 18, 2015 | No Comments

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Photo courtesy of Switch Studies

Welcome to Elust #74

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #75? Start with the rules, come back October 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

She wanted to let the light in…
Reflections on the Male Nude

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Is it play acting?

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

Can a Woman be a Good Mother and Write a Sex Blog
Read more

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Derptastic Dee

Posted on | September 13, 2015 | 18 Comments

It’s been a while since my last ‘derp’ post, and it felt like time! For this post there’s a theme: derping with parasols. Because why not?

(Derp post 1; Derp post 2)

A few years old now, this photo is immediately dated by my black hair and fringe. (What happened to that top? I really liked it!) Hylas caught a great expression here, with my eyes closed and my mouth partway through changing position:

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(See some better photos here)

My niece took this series of pictures, and most of them came out brilliantly. Not so with this shot, which caught not only the ‘closed eyes’ look but also the ‘chin thrust’. Not a keeper!

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(See some of the keepers here)

And Tethys is definitely to blame for this photo. Because I’m always making a blow-job face when ey’re around! Mmm, blow-jobs …

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(See the rest of the photos here and here)


See some less derpy Sinful Sunday images by clicking the lips! Sinful Sunday

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Intriguing Reading #95

Posted on | September 11, 2015 | No Comments

My irregular roundup of interesting reads, found from all over the place.

Wanking: the past and future of masturbation: “While masturbation is fun, free and relatively easy to do, it has not always been seen as strictly for sexual pleasure. Across the ancient world there were spiritual and cultural depictions of masturbation, from cave paintings to ancient Egyptian religious rituals.”(Chris White / Archer)

Tubes vs Torrents: The Ethics of Piracy: “I see a major difference in intent between torrents and tube sites. With regards to pornography, tubes and torrents are diametrically opposed reactions to the infinite reproducibility of online content.” (Stoya)

The FDA’s crusade against lube: “The agency’s rules are designed to keep consumers safe from potentially toxic products, but critics say its approval process leads to major bureaucratic hurdles for lube companies, especially smaller ones that cater to a niche audience. And in the end, a lot of lube products that end up on the store shelves aren’t always that good for you anyway.” (Peter Holslin / Vice)

Whoops!: “[M]y education came entirely from an old copy of The Joy of Sex confusingly mingled in dog eared piles of Hustler and Penthouse magazines, poorly hidden under my parent’s bed. The amount of semen and ejaculating that happened in the stories between those covers only served to cement my fear that the majority of sex was attempting to not get pregnant while bathing in white goo.” (Emily Bingham)

5 Ways to Survive a Shitty Time: “If you turn to Google, you’ll probably find 25,000 mindfulness articles telling you to meditate, get sunshine, think positive and snap a rubber band on your wrist when you think shitty thoughts. Fuck that. While all of those things are probably solid advice, they also sound like they were written by someone who farts butterflies and drinks a 8 glasses of water each day.” (Amie Wee)

One lawyer’s crusade to defend extreme pornography: “Imagine, he said, showing a series of Hollywood car crashes to a group of people who had never watched police-chase movies – the violence, the smashed glass, the blood, the death – would they be able to decide on ‘realism’? Well, this is what is going to happen here, he insisted. Can people with no previous experience of watching this material decide on what is “offensive” or what is “disgusting” or what is “obscene?” Why the morally subjective language? And surely it is legitimate to explore disgust in a consenting sexual context?”(Edward Docx / The Guardian)

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Kinglake Summer

Posted on | September 9, 2015 | 6 Comments

Early December is the start of summer in New Zealand. Not that it’s that hot then. (February’s another matter – by then you know it’s summer for sure!) When you’re in the state of Victoria, Australia, early December is a different matter: it’s already summer with a vengeance, with plenty of sunburn, sweat, and stickiness.

So when Tethys and I spent a day out in Kinglake National Park, it was hot. Which is why I had a parasol and plenty of sunblock on for our wee hike through the bush. What I didn’t know was where the path would take us, which was to a bridge, and then to a great viewing platform overlooking a waterfall.


There was no one nearby (although we were aware the place wasn’t deserted, and passed some people later on), so I stripped and bared myself to the sunshine and the delicious breeze.

curvaceousdee view waterfall

Sneakers stayed on though, because that was purely sensible!

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If it had been just slightly cooler, or a tad more deserted? Then I might have stayed in this position longer, and encouraged Tethys to have eir wicked way with me … mmmm :)


Summer: the perfect time to take it all off. But not for long enough to burn!


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Posted on | September 6, 2015 | 20 Comments

Sometimes I’m utterly amazed that Apollo and I have been together for so long – over thirteen years. Other days I’m not surprised at all: our days flow together comfortably and lovingly (albeit full of experiences good, bad, stressful and entertaining!).

The other day one of my blog posts was automatically retweeted – this one from near the end of 2006 – and after re-reading it and smiling I had to wonder. Which holiday away had that been? Where had we gone? Was it to see relatives, or get some time away, or something else? I spent the evening sporadically considering this, and when I awoke on Saturday morning (and then awoke Apollo for some sleepy sexy fun) we sprawled in bed with a cup of tea and discussed it.

“Was that when we went to Wellington?”

“For your cousin’s 21st? No, we stayed with your aunty then, not in a hotel.”

“And it wasn’t New Plymouth either. Hmm.”

“Was it just for a holiday?”

“I don’t think so? We normally do that in May or around Giftmas.”

I had a sudden thought. “Oh! Was that Adonis and Aphrodite’s wedding?”

“In Whanganui? The one where Nausicaa stayed at the motel with us, and we dropped her at the bus station before we came home?”

“Yes. Yes I think it was!”


“So much has changed since then. Other people, I mean. There’s been divorces, remarriages, moving to different cities, breaking of contact. And here we still are.”

“Yes we are. And I’m glad of it.”

(I checked the photos today, and indeed it was the wedding travel I remembered – the dates matched.)

And so here we remain, together and happy. Just as it should be.

curvaceousdee apollo smilePhotographed by Yvonne Shearer in May 2013.

This is a rare photo of Apollo on this site (and I am delighted he’s okay with me sharing this one). See the other images here, here, here and here.


There’s a theme for this week’s Sinful Sunday: clothes. See who else is sexy and dressed! Sinful Sunday

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Keeping it Real

Posted on | August 26, 2015 | 12 Comments

I pondered on the prompt for this week’s Wicked Wednesday, unsure if I wanted to write or not. But the phrase used for the prompt (“I don’t want realism. I want magic.”) kept tugging at me. Did I want magic? What about realism? Where did I fall on the continuum of magical through to real?

Magic is appealing. It really is (and I read a whole lot of fantasy!). But for everything I considered where magic would be amazing, I could see what I’d lose as a result.

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Here’s a few examples:

Magic: Being able to jaunte to Melbourne any time to see Tethys, so we can have lots of amazing sexy in-person times together.

Realism: While those in-person times are comparatively rare, they’re intense and incredible. We’ve also had to work hard on our communication skills as we manage a long-distance relationship, and we’ve both benefited from that.

Magic: My migraines disappear and never return.

Realism: While living with chronic migraine can be challenging (and sometimes downright sucks) I’ve learned to respect my body and its limits, and devote a lot of time to self-care. I am better to myself because of this.

Magic: I have all the time I need to read any book I wish (I wish! There are so many books waiting to be read).

Realism: I still read a whole lot – it’s a self-soother for me – and I value the books I do read. I also value the time I have to do other things. Not to mention that books come out faster than I can read them, always. If I had all the time in the world? There’d still be more books to read after that.

Magic: I can meet in person all the amazing people I’ve gotten to know through blogging and tweeting.

Realism: I’ve met some of them, and it’s been fantastic. But I have a great network of online friends and ways to communicate with them. And I keep buying my lotto tickets…


Which works for you: realism or magic? Click the logo to see what others think.


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Squishy Goodness

Posted on | August 23, 2015 | 15 Comments

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What are you looking at? Can you tell? Does the click-through help you at all?

That’s right – it’s Hylas’ cock. And it’s thoroughly squished between the two parts of the Electric Bondage Board (there’s no escape!). The more squishing, the better the contact for the electricity… and there’s where I get a whole lot of sadistic pleasure.

A maginally less squished view is below (and for ultimate squish, click on through).

penis board

It’s a complete pain to get his balls through the hole to start the process, but well worth the bother. There are so many options for electricity – through the head of the penis, the scrotum, or attached to the buttplug which is also part of the set. Or mixing and matching!

Yes, my inner sadist has a hell of a lot of fun when tormenting Hylas’ penis is on the menu. Possibly too much fun. But the more sadistic I am, the harder he gets… which suits me just fine :)


Electricity: much less scary when I’m the one playing with the dial!

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