Party at Pet’s Place

I much prefer small intimate parties to large ones. While I have occasionally attended kinky events that have had 50-100 people, I get ‘peopled’ out and overwhelmed quite swiftly – while I really enjoy getting to know people and talking to them (not to mention seeing folks play), the sheer numbers tire me out.

So the small parties that we hold at Hylas’ place? Are absolutely perfect. 8-12 people that we know really well, the option of sex with our kink, and anyone is welcome to go and hide out in the toy pile if they need some quiet space. There’s no shortage of introverts in our group of friends, and I’m not the only one that sometimes needs some time to myself.

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Ginger Clit Tease

I’ve only played with ginger the once, on a long and depraved weekend where I had quite a lot of fun with quite a lot of things! Rather than penetrating any particular orifice (although both Dionysos and Kiana tormented me with the notion), I instead had freshly peeled sections placed directly on my clitoris, its juices slowly leeching into me and intermingling with my own.

It was a good breakdown of sadism. While Dionysos made sure I couldn’t close my legs and ensured I was extremely moist; Kiana took the ginger root and peeled it, all ready to go places. As you can see, she was clever and wore a glove, so she didn’t accidentally juice herself! (You can click above for a different view of the ‘placement’ process.)

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Waving the Flag

One of the wonderful things about my best friend Kiana is that we just have so much fun together. Sometimes it’s a quiet day of reading; other times it’s hitting the op-shops … and occasionally it’s covering me in paint and photographing the results!

Before I got covered in paint, Kiana created a flag for me – one I am absolutely proud to have. Here are some more pictures of it (and yes, there are click-throughs on all of them this week):

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Proud to be Me

Today is day three of the Seven Wonderful Sins celebration, and the focus today is on PRIDE!

There are a lot of different ways to interpret ‘pride’ these days, but I really wasn’t sure where to take this one. Luckily for me, Kiana knew exactly what to do, and it wasn’t simply running around with a Pride Flag – although as you can see below, she did create a special one to celebrate my blogaversary. How awesome is that?

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Fill ‘er Up!

The first real job I ever had was pumping petrol, at the gas station just across the road from our house. I worked there for nearly four years, part-time after school and on the weekends (on Saturday mornings I got to open up the place, even, and was supervisor for the shift. Oh, the power!). Despite coming home reeking of petrol and needing to shower thoroughly, I overall really liked it – I was delighted not to be working in a supermarket or fast food joint like so many of my friends.

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Rocket Ship Curvaceous

Look what descends from the skies ceiling! Is it a dildo? (We should all be so lucky.) It’s a rocket ship!

No, wait, it’s just an elevator shaped like a rocket ship.

Bloody cinema complex. It’s all lies.

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Call Me Luchador

The day has rolled around, so The Luchador comes calling

With red and silver mask, showing cleavage to distract.

No matter who the foes, she’ll beat them in the brawling

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Wanton in Wendy’s

I’ve been trying to get Scavenger Hunt pictures in a fast food chain for quite some time – but always a combination of nerve and timing and people got in the way.

Finally, with the help of the photo-taking dream-team, Hylas and Kiana, we got them. We planned in advance, which helped. The location, the clothing (short skirt, no bra, no knickers either), the time of day even. We were going to get this right, by golly!

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Steel and Smiles

After busting my back a few months ago and wearing my pale pink corset practically daily for weeks, I discovered that plastic boning really isn’t strong enough to hold my voluptuous curves in check – I’m sure that’s a surprise, right? So I embarked on a search to find, fit and purchase myself a proper steel-boned corset for myself.

I found an utterly gorgeous one, in an Edwardian Stripe style – but by the time I’d done so, I was so sick of having to wear a corset that I took the opportunity my healing back offered (and the strongly worded advice of the osteopath to not, so my back would not rely on one for support), and tucked it away until the right occasion. Which was a play party!

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On the Up

Hylas, Kiana and I began our Saturday by visiting the Auckland Craft Fair – which was crowded, and full of crafty things, and exhausting! When we’d had enough, we retreated to the food court at the base of the Metro building/Imax/movie theatres on Queen Streets to eat with Spinneretta … and looking upwards, I had an idea.

It was an idea which started us on an epic Scavenger Hunt and only ended hours later, with seven locations ticked off, and finished with the fantastic giant pipes. But it started with the escalators.

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About Dee

Exhibitionist with words, skin and sex. Free with kisses, compliments, and friendship. Open with heart, passion, and laughter.
Labels I choose for myself: pansexual, polyamorous, fat, kinky, New Zealander, writer.
You can keep my partners and close friends not-mixed-up by reading more about them here.
I write fortnightly for GLBTI magazine express, for whom I am also the sub-editor. I also write upon occasion for other publications!