Flashing Greater Auckland

I take shameless advantage of the awesome balcony Hylas has in his apartment. It has an 180 degree view overlooking greater Auckland – from the Waitakere Ranges across the western suburbs to the central city, over the harbour and the Harbour Bridge, to a portion of the North Shore. And because there’s also a bush reserve directly beneath his building, there’s no neighbours too close by!

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Big Cats Come Together

Continuing our Wild World special on the Big Cat Mating Ritual of New Zealand, the Tall Golden Furred Tiger has expressed his interest in the Big Arsed White Bellied Tiger, and had that interest returned. They have touched faces, and she has bared her belly – a sure sign of approval and a prelude to the mating itself.

Now the Golden Furred Tiger is purring gently as she grooms him. The claws of the White Bellied Tiger can be vicious, but she continues to show her approval – she how she has pulled his head to her belly.

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Big Cats on the Prowl

What happens when two kinky cats meet and find each other attractive? This week in Wild World, your host takes you through the beginnings of the Big Cat Mating Ritual of New Zealand.

The Big Arsed White Bellied Tiger feels threatened when the Tall Golden Furred Tiger enters her territory. As yet his intentions are unknown. She watches from satefy, ready to react. (While they are sub-species, they do not always play together well, and it can end in bloodshed and tears.)

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Great big heart

My heart is not small – my emotional heart, that is. My pillow one is pretty big too (although technically that one belongs to Hylas!). My big heart is full of opens doors; it’s bruised and scarred; and it has lots of space. Its walls are flexible and expand easily to fit more people in.

And I like my heart that way – it’s my design, and my choice. But some hearts are static. Some hearts are just one room filled with just one person. Some hearts only have one door, with one key latch – but no one has the key. And some hearts are so scarred they don’t open any more. Sure, my heart is damaged – as all hearts are in some way – but damage is part of living and loving. I prefer to take the chance.

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Property Values

When I posted my recently about my Title Deed, and my Owner/property relationship with Tethys, the lovely Amie Wee was a tad perplexed. Nothing wrong with that – if you’d told me eighteen months ago that I’d choose to be owned by someone, I’d have scoffed!

So she asked me some really good questions, and I thought I’d devote a post to answering them. I hope they will prove interesting to you, dear readers. Italics are by Amie.

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Attractiveness

Guest post by Tethys, reprinted here with m’Lady’s permission. Original post, with comments, can be read here.

Earlier today i had a Twitter conversation about the looks of trans people in porn; and i felt it raised some issues i feel are better discussed in a blog post than within the confines of the Twitter 140-character limit.

My initial tweets were:

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Sexing the Social Life

The morning after I returned from Melbourne, I woke up to an email from Amie Wee, asking if I wanted to come with her and get interviewed about sex blogging and social media for this show called The Social Life.

Me: jetlagged, bruised, and very tired. So why the hell not?

I’m very glad I took Amie, and Lewis Bostock, up on their invitation. I had a lovely time, and I think the interview came out fantastically. Having permission to wear m’Lady’s collar calmed and centred me, too.

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Serious Dee?

I don’t do serious very well. You’re more likely to find me chortling merrily away – although I can keep a straight face when the occasion warrants it. It’s just there’s so damned much to be worried and concerned and frowny about in this world (and that’s why you’ll usually find me laughing instead).

But sometimes, for brief moments, I can be serious. I can hold still for just a moment. This is one of them. I can be serious for boobies.

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Studio smiles

I love being photographed. (You never would have guessed, would you?) And being photographed by Amie Wee was one of the funnest non-orgasm afternoons I’ve had this year. We rocked out to disco; I played with various toys; she played with lights and made silly suggestions and we had a great time working together!

I think she did an awesome job of showing just how much fun I was having. What do you think?

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Poems Poems Poems

It’s National Poetry Day here in New Zealand, so I entertained myself by taking poem requests from twitter readers. Here are the results!

Fisting

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About Dee

Exhibitionist with words, skin and sex. Free with kisses, compliments, and friendship. Open with heart, passion, and laughter.
Labels I choose for myself: pansexual, polyamorous, fat, kinky, New Zealander, writer.
You can keep my partners and close friends not-mixed-up by reading more about them here.
I write fortnightly for GLBTI magazine Express, for whom I am also the sub-editor. I also write upon occasion for other publications!
If you want to get in touch, send me an email: curvaceous.dee@gmail.com.