Kali Biting Down

I like to hurt Hylas. Which was a bit of a scary thing both for me to discover, and to admit – after all, I’m generally the one who likes to be hurt! But playing with my Pet, who is a self-confessed ‘sick puppy’, discovering all sorts of things that turn him on even as he dislikes the pain (and that turns me on hard?). Yeah. I don’t know if I’m in top-space, exactly. But I’m definitely getting my rocks off, and really enjoying hurting him in the bargain.

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Hooded Fun

These days I’m a pretty big fan of hoods, and that’s something that’s changed for the better almost entirely due to my relationship with Hylas. I’m glad for it, because it adds a huge amount to the repertoire of potential play! But a hood on someone I don’t know well? That is still a challenge for me. I need a lot of communication, especially during sexual and/or kink encounters – and a hood takes facial expression away. So if it’s someone with whom I’m still learning to connect with, losing that avenue can make it very difficult for me unless they’re able to increase their verbal interactions to compensate – something that’s not always easy to do in a play headspace.

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Topspace

I’m delighted to introduce another guest post by m’Lady, Tethys.

i’ve read and heard a lot about ‘subspace’ in the context of kink1, but not so much about what i call – and might be generally called, for all i know – ‘topspace’2.

When i’m in topspace, i feel like i’m a rutting beast glowing with power. Whereas i normally prioritise a sexual partner’s needs and desire over my own, in topspace this gets inverted: i care less about what my partner wants than what i want. i’m not in the mood for a slow mutual exploration of desires; what i want, i want now. i want to use my partner as a sexual object to give me pleasure. i want to take what i want and need and don’t really care either way whether my partner is getting pleasure from me doing so. i don’t feel it’s exaggerating to describe it as a type of high. i’m still completely responsive to safewording, but it’s more like a “magic word” which dissipates the topspace, rather than being something i process and respond to in the usual way i respond to language.

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Dionysian Tales

This is a guest post, written by Dionysos. Enjoy!

“So,” smiled Dee up at me from the bed where she lay. “When you came round tonight, did you expect things to end up like this?”

“Not expect. I try not to have expectations,” I said. Then I grinned. “Hoped, though.”

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