Expressing Myself

Which me will you find when we play together?

Will I be the wild beast, full of claws and teeth and fire – ready to rend and bruise and mark in ways that leave us both admiring our battlescars for weeks?

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Cunt Slapping

I can’t escape you. Tied down, legs spread, the smell of me permeating the room … there’s nowhere for me to go.

I know it and you know it. And as that crop raises high, we also both know where it’s going to land, and just how much I want it.

The rope’s just to make sure I can’t squirm away.

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Hurt Me, Pet

When I discovered kink, I discovered submission. The notion of topping didn’t appeal to me in the slightest, and so for years I regarded myself as a submissive. All my kink partners were dominant and in control – the only other relationships I had were without the power exchange at all. Tie me down, take away my control, hurt me, love me – free me. That’s how I felt, that’s what I needed, and that’s what I got.

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Missing an Option

One of the neat things about internet quizzes is that when you read about an interesting one and take it yourself, and then comment on it, suddenly everyone else wants to have a go, too!

When I wrote last week about my switchy results from the Do You Have an Inclination for BDSM quiz, I didn’t realise that it would attract quite as much interest as it did.

Now you can see results and colour commentary from Miss Serenity, Minority Report, and NZLG on their blogs, as well as results for Dana (who works for the same company as me!) in the comments of my original post. There are also various results from various friends on FetLife, all of which are interesting to see.

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That’s a Switch!

It’s summer, and that means summer barbecues. Nothing like quaffing liquid which make you tipsy, eating nommy foods, and talking about kink to make the days go by!

There have been a lot of summer barbecues over the last few weeks, and the most recent was just yesterday. It was great to catch up with friends, and one of them, iona, mentioned a quiz she’d done recently – and how her results had changed so much since last doing it. The quiz? Do You Have an Inclination for BDSM?

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About Dee

Exhibitionist with words, skin and sex. Free with kisses, compliments, and friendship. Open with heart, passion, and laughter.
Labels I choose for myself: pansexual, polyamorous, fat, kinky, New Zealander, writer.
You can keep my partners and close friends not-mixed-up by reading more about them here.
I write fortnightly for GLBTI magazine Express, for whom I am also the sub-editor. I also write upon occasion for other publications!
If you want to get in touch, send me an email: curvaceous.dee@gmail.com.