Ask Aunty Dee: Anal Play and Buttplugs

A good friend of mine is getting curious about anal play. He and his partner have experimented a little bit with fingers up his bum (which worked out really well), but now she’s a little unsure about continuing – while he’s definitely wanting to experiment more with those good sensations! So, knowing that I’m a bit of a butt-slut, he came to me for some advice about what toys to try, and how to do so safely.

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Ask Aunty Dee: How Does a Vac Bed Work?

The luscious BadBexie wanted to see me in a Vacuum Bed, and I was happy to oblige. I like it in there!  But a quite a few people wanted to know more about how they worked, so it seemed like a good idea to get some photographs and explain it all.

In order to get to ‘wow you can totally see my hair!’, there’s a whole bunch of steps that need to be taken first. For starters, you have to assemble the Vac Bed – and that’s a bit of a challenge itself!

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Ask Aunty Dee: Dental Dams

A friend who wishes to remain anonymous is dead curious about dental dams:

So what are these dental dam things anyway, and what’s the point of them? I know that you’ve used them before, Dee, so tell me what you think about them please!

That I can definitely do, anonymous friend. My first introduction to dental dams was when I started to do presentations about sex toys for work – in the lube and safer sex section there were dental dams (in addition to condoms), and they were a lot of fun to talk about and to show off. They always got a lot of attention too, as very few people in New Zealand know what they are (most assume it’s something to do with dental work. The name is not an endearing one!).

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Checked Out

When did you last get an STI check? Have you ever had one?

I’ve been getting mine on an annual basis for the last seven or so years. Generally that meant taking the easy route and getting tested when I saw my gynaecologist for my yearly check-up.

Over those last seven years I’ve had sexual interactions with approximately a dozen people, eight of whom have been (or become) longer-term partners. In all cases (bar the first threesome I ever had, when I was horny and dumb) I’ve practiced safer sex. And in all cases, when it came to a partnership that I wanted to be longer-term, I’ve made sure we’ve both been checked out.

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Ask Aunty Dee: Handjob Help

An ongoing and occasional series, answering questions which have been posed to me. If you have a question you’d like answered (anonymously or otherwise), feel free to email, gtalk, or msn me: curvaceous.dee AT gmail DOT com.

In the middle of a recent chat with Chilli Gal, she suddenly tangented:

This may seem really weird and left of field, but I tried to give a handjob for the first time in over three years… and I had NO fucking clue how to do it! I was hopeless.

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Ask Aunty Dee: Vampire Erotica

An ongoing and occasional series, answering questions which have been posed to me. If you have a question you’d like answered (anonymously or otherwise), feel free to email, gtalk, or msn me: curvaceous.dee AT gmail DOT com.

V asked:

I really like reading vampire erotica, but have trouble finding good (and arousing) stuff. Do you have any recommendations?

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Ask Aunty Dee: Preventing HPV Transmission

An ongoing and occasional series, answering questions which have been posed to me. If you have a question you’d like answered (anonymously or otherwise), feel free to email, gtalk, or msn me: curvaceous.dee AT gmail DOT com.

Today’s question is from a long-time polyamorous friend:

My primary partner and I recently had our first foursome! It’s the first time we’ve been involved with anyone else since finding out about my HPV though, and the safety logistics were tricky… I was wondering whether you know what’s safe / not safe to do and how to maximise fun while minimising risk?

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Ask Aunty Dee: Hitachi attachments

The first of an ongoing and occasional series, answering questions which have been posed to me. If you have a question you’d like answered (anonymously or otherwise), feel free to email, gtalk, or msn me: curvaceous.dee AT gmail DOT com.

Our first question is from Cake, and is about the matriarch of vibrators: The Hitachi Magic Wand.

You’re not supposed to use the Hitachi internally, are you? I have visions of a vag scrape.

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