Driven

Usually I am proud of my marks. I take delight in the ache and purple of bruises; in the lines left by claws; in the dents left by teeth or leather or pain.

Usually I love my marks. They remind me of how they were received, and of the love intermingled with the hurt which created them. They also give me a solid connection to my submission.

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Nippleage HNT

I really like getting tied up. I also like getting tied down. In fact, show me some rope and I pretty much want it wrapped around me, in some configuration or other!

My ‘chew-toy‘ tag and rope. Bliss!

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Ask Aunty Dee: Preventing HPV transmission

An ongoing and occasional series, answering questions which have been posed to me. If you have a question you’d like answered (anonymously or otherwise), feel free to email, gtalk, or msn me: curvaceous.dee AT gmail DOT com.

Today’s question is from a long-time polyamorous friend:My primary partner and I recently had our first foursome! It’s the first time we’ve been involved with anyone else since finding out about my HPV though, and the safety logistics were tricky… I was wondering whether you know what’s safe / not safe to do and how to maximise fun while minimising risk?

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Graze on my lips

It can be difficult to find the time to check out everyone’s HNT photos. In this regular feature, I showcase my favourite pics of the week. If you like them, please visit the blogger in question and let them know – I certainly have.

Lips. What can I say about lips? They’re delectable – catch them between your teeth; run your tongue over them; tease them with warm breath. Kiss deeply, passionately. Feel them plump with desire. Gnaw at them to show your arousal.

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Sheer HNT

One of the great things about summer (yes, it’s summer down here in the Southern Hemisphere) is sarongs. I have a variety of colours and patterns – which go with my moods and my clothes – and they’re ever so handy!

After Apollo and I first moved in together, he promptly claimed one of my sarongs – in this heat it’s morning wear, post-work wear, and all-weekend wear! It was originally a gift from my (now ex) partner’s brother’s partner, so was happy to give it a more positive spin. Not to mention the yellow and green suit him, and I get to perve at his arse through the thin material…

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Just click

Clean and coyCoy Pink always has amazing imagery, but she goes one step further to break hearts and tumescese groins with her fantastic milk bath photoshoot. This is just one picture – go and see the rest!

How many have you encountered?9 People Who Kill The Mood During Sex (hat-tip Rebecca Deos)There are a lot of “dos” and “don’ts” during sexual encounters that most people have little trouble following. (Do insert your penis. Don’t sneeze during intercourse.) But some types of people, on the other hand, always do something that screws up the whole thing. Here are nine of them.

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Touching skin

It can be difficult to find the time to check out everyone’s HNT photos. In this regular feature, I showcase my favourite pics of the week. If you like them, please visit the blogger in question and let them know – I certainly have.

It’s so nice to feel the press and slide of desired objects against my skin. Whether heavy and with the weight of meaning, or light and delicate and easily thrown aside, each has their time and place. This week, the images I’ve chosen all have something which I wish was touching my skin in the way it touches theirs.

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12 x the Pleasurists

Pleasurists is your round-up of the adult product reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #11? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #13? Submit it here before Sunday January 26th at 11:59pm PST.

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Blue lagoon HNT

I love having colourful knickers. Black knickers are great for going under black trousers – or looking extra-saucy – and white lacy froth is delightful under gauzy summer dresses. But colourful knickers are my favourites. When I pull open my underwear drawer each day the colours spill out, and it makes me smile every time.

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General Amnesty

You know, there are a lot of people reading this here blog. Which makes me happy! The RSS feed ticked over 400 followers yesterday, so I thought it was time to ask y’all to delurk and say hello.

I’d love it if you answer any/all of these while you’re at it!Who are you?Where in the world are you? What labels do you choose to own? (For example, I choose to label myself fat, submissive, kiwi etc. – you can look at my profile for more of my labels.)Why do you like my blog? (Or, if you hate it and follow to sneer, why do you hate my blog?) Do you twitter? Do you chat?Are you on FetLife?

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