Tempestuous (Anniversary pt 4)

Streaming, slipping, sliding. Hot water and warm flesh, damp hair and the taste of chlorine and ephemeric bubbles. I lie back, head resting against hard plastic, while you slip (slick) between my legs. You kneeling, worshipping, bubbling breath up past my belly as you dip below to take me in your mouth.

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Stripping Juliet (Anniversary pt 3)

There are many aspects to creating a successful anniversary evening, and they differ depending on the people involved. Sometimes it’s hard to go wrong, though – and a large house with open fire and outdoor spa, empty (except for a small grumpy cat) and all ours for the night, is a pretty good starting point.

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Sugasm #94

Some excellent posts this week – I highly recommend you take the time to click through and lose yourself for a few hours.

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #95? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

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Expose of Erotica (Anniversary pt 2)

The Erotica Expo has been a yearly fixture in Auckland since about 2000, and I have been most every year – some years with a partner, some years with friends, some years with both. Last year was memorable in that Aphrodite and I went together, with Adonis joining us later. It was a brilliant afternoon and evening, as I took Aphrodite around on a chain-maille leash that Adonis had made (which felt a little strange, not being particularly dominant myself, but she loved it and that made me happy), and were joined after work by Adonis himself. And it was him seeing me glowing, sexually as high as a kite from spending half an hour in the long rectangular cage at the bondage stand (my first time in a cage, ever) that clicked our relationship from ‘friends’ to ‘more than friends’. And we never looked back.

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Etched with Love (Anniversary pt 1)

It’s been a year since Adonis and I moved from friendship to a more intense relationship, and it’s been a year of many delights. I love him second only to Apollo – when it comes hurting me and healing me (in consensual, wonderful ways), no one else comes close. I cannot compare my two men, but I can offer a metaphor of contrasts: Apollo is my rock – he stops me sinking when on quicksand; while Adonis is my anchor – he keeps me tethered when buffeted by storms.

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We sleeping wake, and waking sleep

I don’t often dream about sex. It may be that I get enough during my waking hours, or cover the possibilities during my fantasies. Either way, to dream of sexual dalliances, relations, meanderings and savourings is precious and memorable to me. Strangers all, my dream lovers – unforgettable and yet not a threat to those I love when my eyes are open. Sparkling brightly, my dream self comes together with them only once, before they move on to another setting, another dreaming desirer.

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The 93rd Sugasm

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #94? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

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Deluge of euphemisms

On the radio this afternoon I heard something rather strange. Something that I was sure I had, in fact, misheard. But my brother, also in the car with me, heard what I heard too – my ears weren’t blocked. I kinda wished they were though, once we realised what we were hearing.

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Reckless experimentation

A wee while back I asked if there were any questions that readers had for me. I’ve answered two questions (about jealousy) already, and it’s time for a new one.

This time, the question is from the lovely Dionysos:

Many years ago, you decided that your way forward was to be, “Better living through reckless experimentation”.

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Cake and cunnilingus

I love my tail.

HitTail, that is.

Every evening I’ll log in and have a look at where people have arrived from. For not only does it give me numbers, it also gives me pages – and that’s fascinating! Following unfamiliar links back to their source introduces me to blogs that I was previously unacquainted with, up to that point; and looking at search terms gives me a voyeuristic look into the back-alleys of the internet.

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