Ancestors

Because I’m a curious person, I get to wondering about how sexual the previous generations of my family were.

(This isn’t as weird as it sounds. My parents are dead. All grandparents bar one are dead. And the greats? Long gone.)

Obviously they were sexual enough to reproduce, otherwise I wouldn’t be here. That goes for the ancestors of most everyone on the planet. But were they happy? Did they smile, or ‘think of England‘? Did they have relations because it was part of marriage and  expected of them, or necessary to survive, or did they take pleasure – and give pleasure – and feel joy in coming together?

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Fun facts about Dee’s nipples

Over the years I’ve learned a few things about my nipples. In some respects they’re like most other nipples. In others, they very definitely are mine – unique and weird and fun to play with until all of a sudden it’s not fun any more.

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Essure to take off the Pressure

For the last few days I’ve had a continuing, cheerful, refrain in my head, which goes like this:

Nooooo [pause] babeeeez for meeeeee…!

Why the refrain? Well, it’s because a) I don’t want to have children, b) I’ve never wanted to have children, and c) my gynaecologist has known me long enough that he’s agreed to d) get me and permanent contraception hooked up. In other words e) sterilised.

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Hurt me, Pet

We hold hands too…

When I discovered kink, I discovered submission. The notion of topping didn’t appeal to me in the slightest, and so for years I regarded myself as a submissive. All my kink partners were dominant and in control – the only other relationships I had were without the power exchange at all. Tie me down, take away my control, hurt me, love me – free me. That’s how I felt, that’s what I needed, and that’s what I got.

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Staunching the wound

I like words. I like them a whole lot – whether they’re spoken or written, they hold a deep appeal to me. I like to to read, to write, to talk and to listen. To learn from the knowledge words impart. For me, words are intense, powerful, strong and moving.

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Descending

I’ve known all my life that I don’t want to have kids. It’s been part of who I am, along with my green eyes and my size 10 feet: no children for me, please.

As such, I’ve been on birth-control since I was fourteen. In the nearly twenty years since, I’ve variously utilised pills, condoms, spermicide, IUDs, and diaphragms. So much work to have the sex without the baby-creation, but it was worth it!

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Fetishes and me

I think most everyone reading knows what fetishes are, right? Just in case, I’ll take the easy way out and quote a little bit from Wikipedia. That way we’re all on the same page here.

To start: Sexual fetishism, or erotic fetishism, is the sexual arousal brought on by any object, situation or body part not conventionally viewed as being sexual in nature.

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That’s a switch!

It’s summer, and that means summer barbecues. Nothing like quaffing liquid which make you tipsy, eating nommy foods, and talking about kink to make the days go by!

There have been a lot of summer barbecues over the last few weeks, and the most recent was just yesterday.  It was great to catch up with friends, and one of them, iona, mentioned a quiz she’d done recently – and how her results had changed so much since last doing it. The quiz? Do You Have an Inclination for BDSM?

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Gender, Buck Angel, and me

“What is between your legs does not define who you are.” – Buck Angel

I’ve been a fan of Buck Angel for quite some time now – not just because he’s damned attractive, but also because he takes the time to try to explain his physical choices to those who ask. Buck Angel, for anyone reading who doesn’t recognise the name, is a transgender performer who is often referred to as the ‘man with a pussy’ – born in a female body, he went through a sex-change, but opted not to have genital surgery. He’s been in a lot of porn, and his appeal is wide-ranging!

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Libido a-go-go

My libido has disappeared. Again. Has anyone seen it?

I like my libido – I like it a lot! So I make sure I take very good care of it – I pet it and feed it and treat it well and ensure that it gets all the attention it wants. So I am very sad that it’s gone missing.

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