IANA…S?

According to my brother, I am not a slut. It totally floored me when he said this, because ‘slut’ is one of those words which I have cheerfully laid claim to for a number of years.

I mean, of course I’m a slut (albeit an ethical one)! I sleep with lots of people, and get nude in public, and talk about sex all the time!

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Wicked tongues

I love cunnilingus. I love having the opportunity for my lips and tongue and chin and nose to discover the secrets of another; and I love to have my legs spread, my cunt open and welcoming of anothers’ teasing face.

There are so many different ways that a mouth can connect themselves with my cunt. And so many partners, each with their own way of connecting with me.

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Too Much

I’ve got a dozen posts knocking about in my head and in draft, but I can’t seem to get any of them finished. Which is likely because this post needs to be done first – and I don’t want to write it. I think it has to be done, though.

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Warm soft strength HNT

Sometimes I just want to curl up. To hide my face behind my hair; feel soft fur beneath my skin. I want to be safe and warm and not required to do anything except simply be.

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Two things that I am good at helping others to remember – and often terrible at remembering to do myself – are to ask for help and to look after myself first. Adonis reminded me of both of these as he took these photographs. Then he wrapped himself around me and reminded me I was safe; let me let control go for a while.

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I forgot

I forgot so many things.

I forgot that to most people the word ‘cunt‘ is an insult, derogatory, and shocking. That they don’t hear it as a marvellous beautiful descriptor of female genitalia, or realise that I speak the word with love and reverence and respect.

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Eclipse of the Heart HNT

If you turn your back to me, eventually I will also turn my back to you.

I will curl forward and hug myself, exposing my spine even as I know it makes me vulnerable.

But you’ve seen me vulnerable before, and never caused harm. Until now. And it hurts all the more for not being deliberate. For being thoughtless. Why did you not realise I was worthy of being thought about?

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Kibbles and bits

Time for my occasional link carnival – posts and articles that caught my fancy and just had to be shared. Enjoy!

Sometimes living in New Zealand is a disadvantage – there’s no chance of me going to the World Erotic Art Museum in Washington, to see Lochai’s exhibition. If you are nearby, though? Read the press-release, then go have a look at these gorgeous photographs!

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Co-operation makes it happen

I love having sex (no matter how you define sex, I love having it). And I love having sex for a whole slew of reasons, not the least of which is fantastic orgasms. One of those many reasons – and probably one of the most important, for me – is that sex is a co-operative venture.

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Friday Poem: Three for me

Tie me up, tie me down, tie me up some more Take a feather to my feet while I’m helpless on the floor Laugh sadistic at me while I then attempt to flee Knowing all my wriggling will not help me to get free

Fondle me, fondle me, fondle me some more Shuck me of my clothes as you go on an explore Slide your hands over my body, moving up and down with glee Increasing my arousal until all I can do is plea

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Shall we dance?

Perhaps not. For over the weekend I came to the conclusion that my dance-card is – believe it or not – finally full.

Those who follow my slutty exploits may have wondered if that point would ever come. I know I certainly did! There are so many marvelous friends and lovers, and those I want to be friends or lovers, in my life – and my heart and body want to accept them all. But while my heart still has plenty of room to expand, my time is somewhat limited.

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