Heft and Pressure

Posted on | March 31, 2014 | 10 Comments |

I love my penetrative toys. While I don’t always have a desire to be penetrated (and my clit gets a lot of attention when I wank) when I feel the need to be filled, vibration rarely enters into what I desire: for me it’s about the shape of the dildo, the solidity of the object, its girth and its length. I retain a focus on the material it’s made of and how it interacts with my labial lips, my vulva, and my slippery interior; the heft in my palm and weight in my belly; and the pressure I can use with it against various interior delicious spots. Mmm. Just writing about it makes me grin!

I love my dildos, and I have quite a lot of them. Slim and long, squat, fat, immensely wide. Silicone, glass, metal. Smooth, knobbly. With handles and without. Some, yes, that have vibratory options – although most of the time I don’t bother. For me, generally, vibrations are most appreciated on my clitoral nub.

Over the years I’ve had my share of appalling jelly, ‘real-feel’ material, and hard plastic from when I was starting out, and moved onto materials better both for my body and for my wanking as I grew more discerning. I’ve both purchased and been given a variety which I’ve reviewed. And there are plenty I never got around to writing up, but are seen in various posts.

And there are the ones I go back to again and again: the favourites.

There’s the chrome dildo shaped like a penis, with just a hint of scrotum to press up against my clit if I angle it just right, and a ringed handle I use so I can work the head of the toy against my g-spot.

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There’s the silicone Sire dildo, the largest I could find to purchase in New Zealand (made by D.VICE), which spreads my labia wide and provides a delicious stretch. I often sit up when using this and slide myself up and down, using the arms of a chair to lift and lower myself.

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There’s the pyrex not-really-a-dildo at all, which once upon a time used to be a part of a telephone line insulator (an antique found in a second-hand store and well-sterilised) – it’s heavy and solid, with ridges and circles. Looking like an art-piece, it challenges me and leaves me panting with desire.

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And then there’s the silicone Mr Universe, purchased from overseas, which requires time and a warm-up with the Sire, and a lot of lubrication. When I’m fucking myself with this, I know it: and I’m both wide open and completely full – an experience I’ve never felt with anything else.

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Those are my current favourites – all very different, and utterly astonishing.

A few posts I’ve written that include dildos:



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10 Responses to “Heft and Pressure”

  1. Vinny
    March 31st, 2014 @ 7:09 pm

    Nice toys … and nice to hear about your attraction to them 😉

  2. Malflic
    April 1st, 2014 @ 3:19 am

    The variety in your current collection of favorites is wonderful. And of course that’s part of why I like playing with my partners using toys’ the pure ability to offer them something different that “the usual”.

  3. Molly
    April 1st, 2014 @ 3:24 am

    I don’t have a steal one… I have looked at them a few times but they are rather pricy but they are definitely on my list to get at some point


  4. Mia
    April 1st, 2014 @ 10:38 am

    They all look wonderful. I want to try steel sometime! I love width too sometimes, being spread really wide makes me cum so hard!!!

    ~Mia~ xx

  5. Michael Samadhi
    April 3rd, 2014 @ 10:54 am

    I love your toys Dee! The tele line insulator is a stroke of genius, I tell you, some enterprising dildo manufacturer should recreate!

  6. Dee
    April 4th, 2014 @ 11:03 pm

    Vinny – Thanks Vinny! I’m attracted to many toys and many people – and many orgasms, for that matter :)

    Malflic – There are many more than the ones shown here, too. It’s nice to have so many to choose from!

    Molly – Steel is absolutely lovely. Like glass, I don’t want it all the time, but oh! It is marvellous… I’m glad to have the chrome one and my aluminium one, and the njoy at Hylas’ as well.

    Mia – It does that for me too. It’s such a delicious sensation!

    Michael – Now that’s a great idea! *eyes pyrex toy* Hmmm….

    xx Dee

  7. Jade
    April 5th, 2014 @ 2:35 am

    OMG that telephone line antique…repurposed for kinky use…too wonderful for words. I have to point it out to W! 😀

  8. Dee
    April 6th, 2014 @ 9:24 am

    Jade – How could I not, once I saw it? It’s amazing :)

    xx Dee

  9. Sammi
    April 8th, 2014 @ 12:55 pm

    I want that one in your top picture! I need to check into Mr. Universe as well :-)

  10. Dee
    April 17th, 2014 @ 11:35 am

    Sammi – I got it from Fascination about four years ago (the chrome toy, that is). It’s called the Silver Man, according to my email records. Only place I can find it online (here) says it’s silver over glass, which doesn’t seem right to me at all – it doesn’t feel like any of my glass toys, if that makes sense. It feels more like my aluminium toy does: weightier. Hence my confusion!

    xx Dee


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