I do enjoy watching others who are receiving sexual pleasure – but (and this is a big but) I only enjoy it if I know that the people I’m looking at are consenting to being viewed. That goes for people on film and for people in front of me. The type of porn that relies on hidden cameras? Really not my thing. Getting off hiding in closets? No thank you. Peering from the bushes to see someone doing it? Nope nope nope. If I’m going to perve, I’m going to be obvious and appreciative. Sure, I can be quiet – no need to spoil their moment. But there’s no shame in being the watcher either, and I’m going to revel in it.
Being at a kink or swing club where people are actively being sexual in public spaces is something that I find damned hot, and definitely appeals to me. Outdoor sex that’s really not discreet (the kind that’s rather obvious, and they don’t care if anyone watches)? That might skeeve out of a lot of people, but not me. (I like to watch porn of outdoor sex, too – and it’s a lot easier to stumble across!) I find it hot in a few different ways: in a ‘sex, integrated‘ fashion, and in a voyeuristic one too. And, of course, there’s watching my friends and lovers being intimate. That’s the kind of voyeurism I’ve indulged in – or been indulged in – the most, and it’s seriously hot. Watching closely as they fuck – expressions and aromas and delicious smooshing of bodies – and being able to get myself off while they do so. Mmmm!
Overall, though, I’m more for being watched than the one watching. I love knowing that people have their eyes on me, which is why I describe myself as an exhibitionist (even if it is more for myself than for anyone else). Still, if you’re going to perve at me, why do it discreetly? Let me know, and I might just shake my arse a little harder for you.
Hylas took these pics last weekend, at the inaugural Guerrilla Pussy shoot. He was ‘voyeur on set’ as Amie Wee first did a photo set (above) and then filmed me wanking myself into just about passing out (below). You can see two of the three toys I used on the windowsill (the third still being down between my legs)!
A Few Posts I’ve Written That Include Voyeurism
- The pleasure of seeing Adonis and Aphrodite together
- The delight of seeing Apollo and Demeter fuck for the first time
- How I enjoy watching hands on cocks
- In Sodom, someone watches everything that goes on…
- How I really enjoy watching m’Lady wank
- It’s worth pausing during the orgy to watch what’s going on
It’s definitely long past time for another orgy!