It’s one year today since m’Lady and I first signed my Title Deed – and I am very pleased to say that we’ve updated and signed a new Title Deed for 2013! As we head into the third year of our relationship, and the second as an explicitly stated owner/property relationship, it’s safe to say that we’re still travelling along a challenging, interesting, and really amazing long-distance journey.
I’m always really happy to talk about why I choose to be in this type of relationship with m’Lady Tethys, especially when I’m in a relationship of equals with Apollo, and my relationship with Hylas is one of Boss (me) and Pet (him). I think it’s extra-important to clarify that it was and is a choice – one that I wanted and asked for initially, which surprised the hell out of both of us, and one that we both choose to remain in. So if you have any questions that aren’t answered in the links above, feel free to ask them!
There are a few new points in Title Deed 2.0 (which you can read below). One of the biggest is a Dissolution Clause (how did we forget this initially? Good question – we both spotted it within days of signing it!), which is kinda essential for a graceful exit strategy. We’ve also clarified some relationship equality stuff – as in, things we both get to do. We were doing them anyway, but it’s good to have them stated. Safewords were also happening, but listing their importance helps to remind us that they’re an vital part of our kink.
The other new thing is that in addition to my primary physical symbol of ownership – my collar – there is also my secondary physical symbol of ownership: my ear tag. This is now listed as well, which pleases me nearly as much as wearing it does!
Click the image to see how happy wearing it makes me! (Thanks to Hylas for the photographs.)
The symbol on the tag is the Greek lambda. Which stands for a whole lot of things. Lexi, kink, queer, love, lust, lambda calculus and more (but not Half-Life, whatever Apollo says!). And the placement on the tag, on my ear (it was initially at the top of my ear, but unfortunately the piercing didn’t take) is because I’m marked like a cow – which, as I’m m’Lady’s Milky Red Heifer of Lambda Ranch, means I’m tagged correctly, and can find my way home again
So this is the Title Deed – if you want to read it any bigger, just click on it.
I love m’Lady. I love being hir slut, hir fucktoy, hir cow. I adore being hir property to use as zie wishes. That’s my choice – and that’s why I helped to write this, and why I signed my Title Deed last year, and this.
Happy Anniversary, dear owner!