Entitled

As of today, I am officially m’Lady’s property – and very happy to be so! I wanted to share that happiness with all my readers, as well as how it all came to be. And, most importantly, my Title Deed, which you can all read in full.

I have been leased-to-own for quite some time now, and collared by m’Lady since November – but putting together a Title Deed that both Tethys and I felt satisfactorily covered everything we wanted to say took the best part of eight months. It was something we worked on together, as equals – which was essential. We worked on it over chat, in person, over Skype, over email. We sent drafts back and forth, we debated ordering and phrasing and definitions and importance of things. We tangented all over the place. And we got very distracted, horny, and ended up wanking more than once!

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Attractiveness

Guest post by Tethys, reprinted here with m’Lady’s permission. Original post, with comments, can be read here.

Earlier today i had a Twitter conversation about the looks of trans people in porn; and i felt it raised some issues i feel are better discussed in a blog post than within the confines of the Twitter 140-character limit.

My initial tweets were:

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Sharing shears

I love sharp things. They make me squirmy and turned on and hot. So when I was visiting CarouselPony to photograph her and her new pet, and her partner pulled out vintage sheep shears which belonged to his grandfather … I got a little ‘my preciousss‘ over them!

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Intriguing Reading #11

My regular roundup of interesting reads, found from all over the place.

The Invention of the Heterosexual: “And I think that really points as well to the fact that these are constructed categories.  This is about your subjectivity, it’s about your allegiance, it’s about where your social networks are, it’s about the kinds of cultural priorities that you embrace and that you endorse. This is not just what gets you hard or what gets you wet. This is not just about what kinds of sex you have, or the congenital configurations of the people you have sex with.  It’s very much about what cultures you participate in.  What cultures you ally yourself with, you know, whose flag you fly.” (Hanne Blank interviewed by Thomas Rogers / Salon)

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Ask Aunty Dee: How does a vac bed work?

The luscious BadBexie wanted to see me in a Vacuum Bed, and I was happy to oblige. I like it in there!  But a quite a few people wanted to know more about how they worked, so it seemed like a good idea to get some photographs and explain it all.

In order to get to ‘wow you can totally see my hair!’, there’s a whole bunch of steps that need to be taken first. For starters, you have to assemble the Vac Bed – and that’s a bit of a challenge itself!

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Sodom: It’s a date

It didn’t look like much from the outside – places like Sodom usually didn’t. But once you had entered, it was a different world. The club had two floors, and within that space it encompassed wide shared areas for play and voyeurism and smaller rooms for more intimate play. There was also space for suspension, areas for tie-downs, take-downs, soft floors for orgies, sofas for time out – and, of course, areas where you could sit and relax. But nothing was particularly particular. The only hard and fast rule was a limit on drinking: two maximum per night.  Where was the fun in an arse plundering if you couldn’t remember it in the morning?

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Peaceful places

Sometimes you’ll find a peaceful place when you’re not expecting it. On road-trip down to Wellington late last year we found such a treasure.  Hylas, Kiana and I had been having fun looking out for spots to take Scavenger Hunt photos – we did the public toilets in Otorohanga, and later found the Ruakawa Falls Lookout as well. But what we had really been hoping to find was a good old New Zealand cemetery. The kind you see on the roadside, full of old headstones and tottering rails. Not an in-use cemetery, but an old one. An interesting one.

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Shining Ailuros

When presented with a lovely sexy kitty who needs a little shining up, of course I’m going to oblige! Ailuros is alluring in any outfit or none at all (as I have been discovering), but as Leela the Snow Spottycat there’s a look of sheer cute that’s hard to deny!

So using silicone lubricant and a soft sponge (and later my hands) I make sure I get all the spots that Hylas has left for me…

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Intriguing Reading #10

My regular roundup of interesting reads, found from all over the place.

“Excessive Genital Detail”: Photoshopped Vulvas in Men’s Mags: “If you go to an art museum you’ll find that female nudes rarely feature realistic genitals. They were either covered up or the artist simply glossed over the details, creating the familiar “smooth mound”. Public hair was considered to be obscene. As far back as Roman times they were leaving out the all-important slit and the tradition continued up into modern times.” (Ms. Naughty)

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e[lust] #32

Photo courtesy of Lady Grinning Soul

Welcome to e[lust], the sex blog round-up- The best posts from the hottest and smartest sex bloggers all in one place! This edition highlights topics such as libido, fake orgasms, teenage lust, voyeurism, BDSM consent and so much more. Want to be included in e[lust] #33? Start with the rules, come back in February to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

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