Missing an Option

Posted on | January 13, 2010 | 4 Comments |

One of the neat things about internet quizzes is that when you read about an interesting one and take it yourself, and then comment on it, suddenly everyone else wants to have a go, too!

When I wrote last week about my switchy results from the Do You Have an Inclination for BDSM quiz, I didn’t realise that it would attract quite as much interest as it did.

Now you can see results and colour commentary from Miss Serenity, Minority Report, and NZLG on their blogs, as well as results for Dana (who works for the same company as me!) in the comments of my original post.  There are also various results from various friends on FetLife, all of which are interesting to see.

To me, though, one of the results I was most interested in seeing was that of Hylas (although I should really ask Adonis to do it as well…). With his permission, here are his results:

Hylas:

You Scored as Bondage

The act of being bound or binding someone is what gets you going. It could be the desire for control or the lack thereof. Luckily, there are plenty of ways to explore this in that most adult stores offer plenty of tools for this fetish. As far as fetishes go this one tends to be one of the more popular.

Bondage  93%
Switch  79%
Submissive   57%
Experimental   54%
Sadist    39%
Dominant   32%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur   25%
Degradation Lover    18%
Masochist    14%
Vanilla    11%

It’s safe to say, when it comes to Hylas, that if Fetishist was an option that it would be top of the list for him – primarily rubber and fur (both of which he’s succeeded into corrupting me with!).

As it is, Bondage is quite an accurate representation. One of the things he loves is being restrained (usually in rubber, but I’ve been doing a lot more work tying the rope these days), and the sense of helplessness that comes with that restraint.  One of the first times he and I ever played, I got to put him in a rubber straightjacket (which was a whole lot of fun!).  Another time, I tried to re-create this fantastic image by using lots of rope, lube, and toys. Mmmm.

I don’t really know how Switchy he is. He’s certainly bratty as all hell, and not inclined to leave off doing something (like pinching my nipples, dammit!) when it’s getting a result. He is, however, very good at hurting me the way I like to be hurt, at my request – topping from the bottom, perhaps? I am regularly covered in bruises that he’s put there, usually through biting, because he knows I get off on it. Which works for me.

Exhibitionism is definitely down the list for the reason. He’s getting better at being in public and being noticeably kinky, but it takes a lot of nerve for him. Which makes things interesting when I’m out there getting my kit off, or showing my arse, or flashing my tits on the train (and in the train station) and telling him to take photos!

Still, we have a plan to visit the Big Gay Out in February, and he’s going to be on his collar and lead, and wearing his rubber catsuit under jeans. All of which makes me damned hot just thinking about it!

So there you go. Interesting quiz, interesting results. Have you done it?

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4 Responses to “Missing an Option”

  1. Hylas
    January 13th, 2010 @ 11:18 pm

    Nope, “topping from the bottom” doesn’t feel like the right way of describing it. I think “service topping” might be a better fit. How does that sound to you?

  2. Dee
    January 14th, 2010 @ 8:20 am

    You’re right – I like ‘service topping’ much better. Of course, in neither case do I really feel like you’re topping. You’re doing what I want, even though that’s stuff that hurts me. Hmm.

    xx Dee

  3. Dana
    January 14th, 2010 @ 6:37 pm

    Well that’s definitely an unusually thorough quiz. The Big Gay Out looks awesome – I’m a major hermit so I’ve never even heard of it. :P

    That’s damn brave of him (or you – Hi Hylas!) I must say, and definitely hot. I might just live vicariously through you Dee. lol

  4. Dee
    January 14th, 2010 @ 9:17 pm

    BGO is amazing! I’ve been for a number of years now – variously with my brother, Artemis, Adonis, and Demeter. It’s always fun fun fun :)

    xx Dee


  

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