Orgy Prep

Posted on | May 15, 2009 | 6 Comments |

Ancient Times 2I’ve done a number of new things this month (and that gets to be a post all of it’s own at some point), but right now I am deeply involved in preparing to hold an orgy. And to participate in said orgy.

It’s all really rather very exciting!

It’s a small orgy, so far as such things go – only five people (which really is about the minimum you can get away with and still call it an orgy). But it’s four people whom I find astonishingly attractive (and me); whom I’ve had sexy loving nekkid fun time with; who’ve all had hawt sexings with me, but not all of them have had with each other.

(Recently some of them have rectified that, which I had the pleasure of seeing and assisting with. That’s another post all of it’s own, too.)

There’s also, I’m discovering, a fair bit of prep involved in getting this orgy thing to happen. First was the date choosing, and then was the inviting. That wasn’t terribly difficult – all hail enthusiasm and experimentation! One person required a little bit of rubber-arm twisting to persuade her that coming to an orgy was far more fun than actually going into work on a Sunday afternoon, but really that was the biggest challenge.

But to make sure the orgy itself goes well? That’s another thing entirely. Here’s the list of requirements, so far:

Ancient Times

Chemistry
No, not chemicals (although I have some leather cleaner somewhere … which reminds me, I need to make sure my leather harness is shiny). Chemistry. I know I have it with everyone else, and I know most everyone else has it with each other. But checking in with folks and making sure that they are aware that a) they don’t have to do sexy things with anyone they don’t want to, and b) if they do want to, they should both negotiate, is kinda important.

Safer Sex Stuff
I needed to check in with one or two participants and find out when their most recent STD check was, and if condoms/dental dams were going to be required. Looks like I’ll be putting bowls of both out. There’ll be photos, I’m sure.

(Makes me wonder if I should have different condom brands and different dental dam flavours out, for variety, or if everyone is happy with whatever I put out there. Which, for the record, is Marquis condoms, and dental dams in wildberry, strawberry, vanilla and cola flavours.)

And there’s lube, of course. That’s not really an issue – I have scads of silicone lube, water-based lube, and flavoured lube. All hail lube!

Practicalities
Feeding the five – that will require lunch first, I think. But not a heavy lunch, or no one will want to play! Snackage will be useful, but if it’s crumb-y it could make things unpleasant. Also, table-knocking could cause disaster. Hmm. Food in the kitchen?

Lots of water. *nods*

The lounge is the play-space of choice, but this will require a little tidying, some vacuuming, and making sure the gas bottle on the heater isn’t going to run out. Putting down duvets and blankets is probably a smart move, as is making sure all my bedroom towels are clean and dry and ready for use.

Fun
Well, it’s an orgy. I’m sure there’s going to be fun! But implements can be helpful too. I bought two squishy dice today, with the wicked thought that a sexy game could be made out of them (where an n on the purple dice = this person and an non the blue dice = that action). And then there’s my harness, various dildos, the Hitachi … in the hands of different people, who knows what will happen?

It’s not likely to be a particularly BDSM’y orgy, as not all participants find that appealing. So the crops and such will likely stay away. I don’t mind, though – I expect to be well occupied!

Illustration of an Orgy

Posterity
I really do need to find out if everyone is okay with me writing about said orgy, how much detail is acceptable (because I’m sure many of you want them!), and if I can take photos. Or at least if they can take photos of me. Because I sure want them!

While I’m writing about orgy preparation in this post, I haven’t really said anything about who’s going to be there (other than me), or what the likely sexy interactions are going to be. I mean, I’m hoping for everyone doing everything with everyone – but I’m greedy like that! So how much detail I’ll be able to share is really up to them, and I totally don’t want to cramp any styles. If writing is not to be, or I can only write about what I personally experience, then so be it.

Personal
And then there’s my personal prep. I’ve already filed my nails, and I plan to wash my hair and shave my legs the day before. I don’t do nail-painting or anything like that – but I should probably think about what I want to be wearing before I shuck it all off. Dress up, cleavage out, dress casual, sexy red nightie? What do you all think?

So yes. I’m planning an orgy. I’m really rather quite excited. Well, wouldn’t you be?

Art all by Edouard-henri Avril.

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6 Responses to “Orgy Prep”

  1. Britni TheVadgeWig
    May 15th, 2009 @ 7:01 am

    I am VERY jealous. VERY. I’ve actually never participated in an orgy before!

  2. Oonai
    May 15th, 2009 @ 9:09 pm

    I can’t wait to hear all about it! My vote is for the red nighty. ;-)

  3. Wendy Blackheart
    May 16th, 2009 @ 3:26 pm

    Carbs and protein are both good orgy foods. I find after/during play a bagel is nice. Gets the energy up. But I can’t tolerate meat after sexy play (especially if that play is kinky. Go figure.) However, I had a roomie that would take jerky with her to parties, because thats what *Her* body needed.

    And pretty much anything that can be licked off another person is good. IN case of messes.

  4. mina
    May 16th, 2009 @ 6:03 pm

    Sounds like it will be a lot of fun! I’m excited for you!

  5. SinSecret
    May 16th, 2009 @ 6:16 pm

    That sounds so fantastic, I can’t wait to hear about it.

    I think i’d wear something very not too revealing, but still sexy. Subtle sounds sexy in the case where you lots of dirty things are going to happen.

    Hope it goes great!

  6. Curvaceous Dee
    May 18th, 2009 @ 6:11 am

    Britni, I never had either – and all I had to do was organise one! (One of the participants asked me why I’d never had one before, given that I was the person most likely out of all his friends to have held one. I really had never occured to me before!)

    Oonai, I did indeed wear my red nighty. For about five minutes, then it was skin all the way!

    Wenny, your suggestions were great, and much appreciated (and also made me crave bagels). We went with homemade minestrone and homemade foccacia bread, and homemade pizza afterwards.

    mina, it was fantastic! I look forward to writing about it for all of you to read :)

    SinSecret, it certainly was sexy. Although we all started out in casual clothes for eating lunch and negotiating, and then went for slinky sexy stuff, then to nekked :)

    xx Dee


  

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